when it is all about e.g.o

why people need ego so much when it is the most frequent reason used when there's a bad relationship?
"he's ego is so much bigger and tougher than the meat my sister cooked last night. that's why i broke up with him."
 or
"she has so much ego than my dog. i don't need a girlfriend like that."
see? why why why why?
blame ego but we actually never take the step to lower our own ego before we blame it on the other or the ego itself.
easiest example, why you never accept the fact that you have many pimples and denying it by covering it up with concealer?
why have to buy an S size shirt when you know you only can fit in M size and above when you buying shirt or clothes with friends?
to say you are embarrassed is not good enough. lying to your own self is worse because you'll end up feeeling guilty your whole life.
"why didn't i just tell him that he has booger on his nose?? now he end up being picked up."
or or
"why didn't i just say sorry? maybe he'd not kill my cat if i did."
see? there's so many bad or regretting consequences when you are too full of your own ego. even a good friendship might be ruined.

"dude, why didn't you just accept her apology?"
"why should i? she's just a bitch i can live without."
"but she really mean it."
" fuck her then. too much ego and does she thinks she's hot? get a life."
see? EGO??? speak for yourself.

EGO can lead to stress to the person who are innocent or actually had lowered their ego seeking for forgiveness.
or even worse, low-self esteem towards one self.
not only to those who seek forgiveness but also to who doesn't have good or nice friends at all. they might end up looking like this:

see the BAD DANGEROUS VICIOUS consequences?
=..=
move on to my next glorious point, yes you might have the reputation but you'll never have a good nice friend and you will NEVER EVER gonna find one.


okay. bye.